I’ve heard some good news from parents lately.  The good news is that some pediatricians are recommending parents seek out play therapy for their children.  You may be wondering what part of that is good news.  First, I believe therapy offers a message of hope.  A message that says, “things can be different. Let’s figure it out together”.  Secondly, the alternative recommendation in so many cases is medication.

As a play therapist, I am so happy that pediatricians are supporting this developmentally appropriate form of treatment for children.  I’ve spoken with quite a few parents whose children are anxious around strangers (bey0nd what is typically expected developmentally) and/or don’t do well around loud noises or crowds.  In the three most recent cases, the children were 2 or 3 years of age.  The pediatricians recommended play therapy first and then medication if nothing changes. 

I must say I cringe at the thought of medicating children so young.  I do believe therapy can have an effective and meaningful impact. However, what parents of children this young should consider and pediatricians should be recommending is Filial Therapy, also known as Child Parent Relationship Training, or here at New Leaf Clinic, Guilt Free Parenting. (You can find a link to an article describing Filial Therapy under the Resources tab on our website.) 

Guilt Free Parenting teaches parents how to be therapeutic agents with their children.  That is, we will teach you, the parent, how to do a parent version of play therapy in your home with your child.  Parents are the best source for ‘treating’ anxiety and fears in young children.  This is because young children feel most safe and connected to their own parents.  So our group is about teaching you to respond in loving, nurturing and even healing ways to your child. 

Frequently I am asked why children go to therapy.  I respond, “for the same reason adults do”.  Children go to therapy when facing death or divorce or change.  Maybe the change is a new sibling, or moving to a new school, or having a new nanny.  All children respond differently to change and just as with us adults some need extra support and encouragement. 

As a parent, I am most frustrated when I feel stuck, unsure, confused or helpless.  I want to excel at my job of parenting.  I want to improve my child’s life.  I honestly know that I can.  I want other parents to have this same experience. Good news!!  We can teach you responses that will help your child feel better when they face some of life’s uncertainties. Good news! You can feel less frustrated with your child and yourself!  Good news!!  You have the power and can have the knowledge to truly help your child!

Join us our Dallas moms group. Mondays for 10 weekly sessions beginning February 8 from 10-11:30am at Frankford and the Dallas North Tollway.  Initial one on one meetings will be scheduled with each prospective member to insure we can meet your personal needs and expectations.  Call or email today! info@newleafclinic.com or 214-707-8835.